Relationship

As you can see, the main topic here is relationship. I didn't post this just for fun in my blog but I post because I think this is one of the main factor affecting people, especially teenagers


Richard's simplified 4 stages law of relationship
 
Stage 1. How many of you had a crush on someone before but dare not tell him because you fear that the relationship between you and him won't turn out well?
-If you are one of them, then I would say you are the type of girl that lack confidence. You may have phobia of getting rejected and you dislike risk taking stuff. The way your mind think is very narrow. Meaning that you only believe in 'possible' or 'impossible'. You seldom will think of hmm.. lets give it a try..maybe things will turn out well?

Stage 2. How many of you actually gave hints to this guy that 'Hey, I am interested in you?
-It's good to drop hints sometime to give a early warning. However, some hints are ignored because that guy didn't notice it. So your hints must be noticeable but not too obvious. If you are one of them, you probably would like playing puzzle. You drop a puzzle a day and that guy slowly pick it up one by one till he get the full picture. This is a good sign as you are fighting for your happiness. Happiness will never come to you unless you reach out for it. If you are at this stage, you will find that you will either end up in stage 1 again or move on to stage 3.

Stage 3: How many of you actually told a guy that you like him before(doesn't have to be face-to-face)?
- If you are the type of person who is at stage 3, I admire you in the sense that you are brave, unlike most girls. Personally, when I reach this stage, I seldom use face-to face method because of the 'weird' feeling. I can't explain this weird feeling because you will only know how it feels when you are at this stage. So for girls who actually have this weird feeling, you can try my method. I used before sms,msn,writing letter and face-to-face. If you are an experienced relationship person, you should know that face-to-face is known as direct method while the rest such as sms are known as the indirect method.

Stage 4: Stage 4 is known as the SorB. It stands for stead or break. After stage 3, you will end up on stage 4. So after telling him that you like him, it means that you are asking him for a date. A date(yes/no) is similar to a coin(head/tail) in the sense that there is only 2 possible outcome. There shouldn't be the outcome of 'maybe'.

Richard's 4 stages of relationship applies to most situation. However, bear in mind that every different relationship have different problem/situation. Therefore, these 4 stages may not be 100% usable.

Signed and written by RCYY.