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3rd march is a memorable day to me... lets see... it's been 5 years till now... sigh....
Everything was alright from noon when I woke up till evening. As usual, I was watching my fav k-drama at 7pm and watched channel 8 at 9pm. Hmm..I was told by my mum that my sis actually bought McWing for me yesterday night... but she didn't tell me anything. That's why I didn't eat. Sian... looks like the relationship with my sister is still very far...perhaps it's my fault... perhaps it's her fault.. but my heart is telling me I didn't do anything wrong... even though I know I did. But nvm... I believe one of these days she will talk to me...

Hmm.... recently not only my family situation have gotten worse... even my grandparents have gotten worse. Long ago my grandparents started to quarrel with each other... but the matter is I don't know why... my grandfather can't work anymore... mainly because he is old already and last year he entered hospital because of his asthma which acted up when he was working. So I guess my grandmother was unhappy with that because this means that the whole family have no income.. because none of her son or daughter is working now..

My grandparent have 2 sons and 2 daughter. The eldest son love to drink alcohol and come home only at night... very late... He doesn't work and will never work. The younger son...which is one of my best uncle... died last year.... he fainted at his house and left this world peacefully... The eldest sister is my mother... she is working as a housewife but her monthly income is only $600. But frankly speaking... it's not enough... my dad have to give my mum $600 every month because it's ordered by the court... if he failed to do so, my dad will have to go to jail. In addition, the $600 is not only for my mum to spend... 600 includes my brother's milk powder....pampers...etc...and my expenses...
Because I know this $600 is not enough for my mum, I quit drinking alcohol...
So this means my mum can't contribute to my grandparent too. The younger daughter is my auntie. She is very kind... but she is not working also... previously she worked in uni-qlo... the famous Japanese clothes shop. But she quit recently...

So anyway, I always thought it's because my grandmother is scared of no income that's why she started to dislike my grandfather. But today... I found out the truth that I am wrong... something actually happened to make my grandmother dislike my grandfather. After knowing the truth... I am on my grandfather's side. Sigh... they have been husband and wife for so many years already... is it really necessary to take each other as enemy? sigh.. the worst thing is I can't do anything to help...
A couple with no trust... with no love... the case is 100% close.

My grandfather had intention to commit suicide long ago because he finds it difficult to bare with my grandmother. sigh... with so many problems facing me... with so many truth that I am not known... what can I as a small boy do? I am getting weaker and weaker day by day... I have been sandwiched...
My grandpa wanted to quarrel with my grandma over a small matter today..luckily my mum stopped my grandpa. Looking at his face.. I was thinking... is he really my grandpa?

Anyway... me,Riyan and my mum were walking home and as usual.. my mum will tell me story... story about my dad... story about my grandparent... all the true story that she have been crying for.
I would say truth hurts... seriously it's hurting me so badly that I can't take it anymore... I would rather my mum tell me they are false...than to face the reality...
I was told 2 facts that I can't accept. The first being why did my mum marry my dad when my mum was only 20 years old. I was shocked... seriously shocked... in the past, pregnancy before marriage is a very big issue... that's the reason why my mum married my dad...

The second being why my mum wanted to abort me in 1991. Hmm.. finally I found out the reason why today... it was a hurting truth... but luckily my mum didn't abort me...
I was wondering if in 1999 my dad died with my elder brother in Genting, how would my life and my mum's life change.

Sigh... looks like I am stress because of all these truths... I am surprised that my mum can be so strong... love you...mum...
Tomorrow 1B23 is going school to play badminton. I wish to play chinese chess with qu xin...haha... so long didn't play... I wonder if my skills have dropped. Take care!